Sense of Purpose.
Grandparents involved in raising grandchildren often report a greater sense
of purpose in their own lives. Margaret Jendrek from Miami University in Ohio
interviewed 114 grandparents who were providing regular care. Most were
caring for only one grandchild, but some had responsibility for as many as
five. Nearly all respondents weregrandmothers. Jendrek identified three types
of grandparents:
Reasons for grandparent care.
Jendrek found that the reasons for caring for a grandchild varied widely,
depending on the type of care. Most day care grandparents cited the mother's
full-time work schedule, while custodial grandparents noted the mother's
emotional problems. Financial help was the most common reason given by
grandparents who lived with a grandchild.
Overall, about two thirds of the grandparents had offered to provide care.
"Living-with" grandparents, however, are apparently more often in a position
where they simply begin to take over. In some cases, this assumption of care
may develop because the child's mother has not yet left home herself. This
circumstance, as well as the fact that these grandparents do not have legal
authority over the grandchild, may help explain why living-with grandparents
were found to experience more stress than the other two types of
grandparents.