Making Lemonade
The Single Parent Network · By Jodi Seidler
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The Two-Home Transition Checklist
A calm, practical checklist for custody transitions. Smooth handoffs help children feel secure — and take the mental load off you.
School Items
- Backpack
- Homework / assignments
- School notices / permission slips
- Library books
- Lunch box / water bottle
Clothing
- Enough clothes for the stay
- Weather-appropriate layers
- Pajamas
- Shoes (including sports / dress)
- Uniforms if needed
Comfort Items
- Stuffed animal / comfort object
- Favorite blanket
- Books they're currently reading
Homework
- Assignments written down or photographed
- Books / materials needed
- Project supplies
- Login info for school platforms
Activities
- Sports gear / uniform
- Instrument / music materials
- Activity schedule shared with both parents
- Permission slips signed
Electronics & Chargers
- Phone / tablet
- Chargers
- Headphones
- Laptop if needed for school
Important Schedules
- School calendar shared
- Medical appointments noted
- Upcoming events communicated
- Holiday schedule confirmed
Transition-Day Routine
- Keep tone calm and positive
- Avoid last-minute rushing
- Brief, warm goodbye
- No adult conflict at handoff
Things Children Should Not Have to Carry Emotionally
- Messages between parents
- Adult financial concerns
- Loyalty conflicts ("Who do you like better?")
- Information about legal proceedings
- One parent's feelings about the other
What Can Stay at Both Homes? (write in)